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Most couples don't struggle because they don't care. They struggle because they don't understand what keeps repeating. If you find yourself:

• Having the same arguments over & over

• Feeling unheard & misunderstood

• Communication turns into frustration

• Wanting change, but not knowing how

Perhaps there is a pattern you can't break, or a core need that needs to be addressed. These are the deeper issues the weekly webinars and the book's framework address.

What This Webinar Is:

This is not a lecture and it is not therapy. It is a guided, step-by-step 4-week process that helps couples:

• Understand the deeper patterns driving conflict

• Learn how to slow down emotional reactions

• Practice more intentional communication

• Begin rebuilding trust & connection

• Make lasting change, not temporary fixes

Each week builds on the previous one

What You Will Learn:

Week 1: Understand Patterns & Core Needs

Learn your patterns & core needs

Week 2 Emotional Stability & Communication

Slow down reactions to enable wise responses

Week 3: Repair Conflict & Rebuild Trust

Repair after conflict & restore trust

Week 4: Rebuild Identity & Life

Rewriting identity to restore relationships

About This Webinar:

• Live virtual webinar

• Hypothetical case studies can be presented

• Your Identity will be protected

• Learn from experienced facilitator

• Learn from one another

• A safe & structured environment

You are not required to share

Homework is practice challenges

Acting out in class = dismissal without return of paid fees

During webinar, we may address other issues if the group has interest

Who is This For:

The framework underneath these webinars is my 432 page workbook, which serves as a practical resource for personal growth, healthier communication, emotional stability, and relationship healing. It provides:

• Worksheets to identify patterns & triggers

• Skills & practices to improve stability

• Exercises to strengthen communication

• Tools for change of relationship dynamics

• Tools I developed to change identity & needs

The workbook is not required, but referenced

The workbook offers more than class content

Pricing Options:

Four Saturday workshops total cost $150 per couple

Monthly topics change monthly, see "Scheduled Topics" below

Workshops and groups are not sold separately. A client receives a four week block from the first meetings.

No refunds for missed meetings.

"We & Me" Feature

Monthly couples fee includes 1 person in group, each of the 4 weeks

Partners can rotate going to group during the four meetings.

This feature is included in all couples packages. This feature allows each person to work on their individual issues, while working on changes in the relationship dynamics.

We all bring perspectives of our past into present relationships.

June: The Same Argument, Again

• Why couples repeat the same arguments

• Small issues / big fights

• Large reactions / little issues

• Why criticism & defensiveness

July: Alone in This Relationship

• Why my partner shuts down

• Why my partner needs to resolve

• Reconnecting instead of running

• Connecting vs. protecting

August: Where Did We (I) Go

• Emotionally safe in the relationship

• Changing value of tone & volume

• Falling apart & fading over time

• Fear of rejection affects vulnerability

September: Fear & Control

• Manipulation, fear & control

• Transparency -= connection

• Insecurity = jealousy

• Building trust in the relationship

October: Communication

• Dysfunctional patterns

• Fair Fighting Rules

• Relationship Agreements

• Active Listening

November: Building Trust

• Disruptor needs & fears

• Betrayed partner issues

• Rebuilding separate identities

• Tools, skills, and agreements

December: Emotional Regulation

• Awareness & slowing the moment

• Coping skill plans

• Repair and restoration

• Identity rebuilding

January 2027: Addictions

• The priority in the relationship

• Secrecy & deceit, codependence

• Hidden agendas underneath

• Recovery roads

February: Emotional Numbness

• Numbness as protection

• Disconnection to intimacy

• Safety avoidance

• Silence screams loudly

March: Trust, Hurt, Resentment

• Unresolved distrust

• Previous survival skills

• Protective patterns

• Healing & recovery

April: Childhood Patterns & Relationship Roles

• Pursuit & withdrawal

• Over-responsibility

• Reassurance-seeking

• Overthinking and intimacy

May: Conflict Resolution

• Matching drama failures

• Winning to lose

• Coregulation

• Repair & restoration